Our friends make us, they encourage us, they are our number one fans, they give us the needed moral support when we need it most, and when we make any progress in life they are always there to cheer us on.
Hence, I am making this post about how to make friends and doing it the easy ways, enjoy it and please do add your comments, I will see you right after you are done reading.
Yes, your friend here and for now!
Tips on Ways to Start Making Friends:
Have you wished that you had more friends? Have you ever wished that you knew how to get more people to know you and like you? Have you ever felt that if only you knew what it would take to be more popular? Here are a few tips for you to start working on.
***Smile. It not only improves your face value it also radiates warmth which attracts people. It's the perfect magnet to draw the attention of strangers in a positive manner. A smile is usually returned back with a smile and that's the start of a good communication.
***Make others feel important. When you listen empathetically to others and relate to their likes and interests they feel important. This becomes your trump card to win the popularity contest.
***Give more, expect less. Most of us lose friends because we begin to assume that the other person should also do for us all that we do for them. Doesn't work. People are inherently self-centered. If you are expecting them to change intrinsically for you then your expectations need a correction. Usually successful friendships are mutually sharing but that is definitely not a starting premise.
***Remember names. It is very important that you ask the name of the other person and it is even more important that you remember it. When you meet someone for the second time and recall them with their name you win a lot of brownie points. Everyone loves to be known and the moment they feel you know them and remember them they grow closer to you. But don't expect them to remember your name so always re-introduce yourself with your name and not make them feel uncomfortable about the fact that they forgot your name.
***Talk about them. People love to talk about themselves. Encourage the behaviour. The more you let them talk and become genuinely interested in them and their interests, the better they relate to you and like you.
In your garden of friendship remember you are the one sowing the seeds. You would need to be the one who has to water and protect your seed for a long time till it grows and is able to share its fruits with you. Make time to nurture it unconditionally and taste the sweetness of fruits for a lifetime.
I am waiting for your comments, see you later my friend! And don’t you ever say you can’t make friends, click here to get started NOW!
